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Unrequited Crush/Love

Have you ever liked someone who didn’t share your feelings? Many of us have had a crush on someone who didn’t feel the same way about us. Maybe it was a classmate, coworker, friend, or ex boyfriend/girlfriend. This is an unrequited crush/love. Unrequited love is a one-sided love or crush. Sometimes the person is aware of the persons feelings. However, sometimes the person with the romantic feelings keeps their crush to themselves for fear of rejection or feeling like they are not good enough for their crush.

Growing up, I was very shy and was so bad at talking to people, especially any guy I had a crush on. I always had a crush on someone, but before I never felt like I was good enough or pretty enough, I never talked to any of the guys that I liked. In fact, I didn’t date at all during middle school or high school. Looking back, I wish I had been more confident and maybe I could’ve enjoyed high school more.

Even now as an adult I’ve had crushed on guys who didn’t like me back. Sometimes I get over the crushes pretty quickly, other times I have trouble doing that. In fact, I even left my job to get over a crush. Luckily for me this did work for me. I no longer saw him and my feelings went away. How do you get over an unrequited crush? The best thing to do is get some distance from them. If this isn’t possible, the next best thing to do is try to think of all their flaws or why they aren’t good for you. Here are some pics I found on Pinterest that Some people can relate to. I know I related to these when I had an unrequited crush.

Here is one very important thing to remember.

Some songs
1. Make Me Like You- Gwen Stefani
2. Can’t Remember to Forget You-Shakira

3. I Can’t Make You Love Me If You Don’t – Bonnie Raitt

4. Creep- Radiohead

5. Sitting, Waiting, Wishing – Jack Johnson

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List of Breakup Songs Part 1

I decided to make two “break up songs” lists. Why? Because one list is for people who are feeling really upset/sad about their break up. the other one is for people who are happy/glad their relationship is over. Hope you guys like the songs i picked! Btw, these songs are in no particular order. Also, some of the songs might not be typical “break up” music, but I put them on the list bc they helped me through my break up.

Break My Heart Hilary Duff
Because Of You Kelly Clarkson
The Trouble With Love Is Kelly Clarkson
Don’t Speak No Doubt
Fotos y Recuerdos Selena
No Debes Jugar Selena
Stay Sugarland
You Belong With Me Taylor Swift
Swing, Swing The All-American Rejects
Potential Breakup Song Aly & AJ
Oh, How it Hurts Barbara Mason
I Can’t Make You Love Me Bonnie Raitt
Silly Deniece Williams
Tengo Ganas De Llorar Selena
Where Did the Feeling Go? Selena
Como la flor Selena
The First Cut Is The Deepest Sheryl Crow
Forever & Always Taylor Swift
Last Christmas Taylor Swift
Dear John Taylor Swift
Come Back To Me Vanessa Hudgens
Somebody Please The Vanguards
Don’t You Remember ADELE
Set Fire to the Rain ADELE
Try Sleeping With a Broken Heart Alicia Keys
Angel Amanda Perez
Sin Ti No Soy Nada Amaral
Moriría Por Vos Amaral
Te Necesito Amaral
Días De Verano Amaral
Unwanted Avril Lavigne
My Happy Ending Avril Lavigne
Nobody’s Home Avril Lavigne
Show Me the Meaning of Being Lonely Backstreet Boys
Quit Playing Games With my Heart Backstreet Boys
You Never Loved Me (At All) Barbara Mason
Poor Girl in Trouble Barbara Mason
Sad Sad Girl Barbara Mason
If You’re Not The One Daniel Bedingfield
Over You Daughtry
Si No Estas El Sueño de Morfeo
Enseñame a Olvídar El Sueño de Morfeo
All I Could Do Is Cry Etta James
I’d Rather Go Blind (Single) Etta James
My Heart Is Broken Evanescence
I Hate Love Garbage
Sad Girl The Intruders
Teardrops Fall Jessica Lowndes
Dreaming With a Broken Heart John Mayer
Thinking of You Katy Perry
Cry Kelly Clarkson
Behind These Hazel Eyes Kelly Clarkson
Deseos De Cosas Imposibles La Oreja De Van Gogh
Tears On My Pillow (LP Version) Little Anthony And The Imperials
We Belong Together Mariah Carey
Til’ I Get Over You Michelle Branch
Goodbye To You Michelle Branch
Mama’s Broken Heart Miranda Lambert
Nobody’s Fool Miranda Lambert
Sin For A Sin Miranda Lambert
Always Something There To Remind Me Naked Eyes
Heart Attack One Direction
More Than This One Direction
If You Leave Orchestral Manoeuvres In The Dark
Who Knew P!nk
Hate (I Really Don’t Like You) Plain White T’s
Here Comes Goodbye Rascal Flatts
Cobarde Selena
Mentiras Selena
Yo Fui Aquella Selena
No Me Queda Más Selena
Feelings Selena
Don’t You (Forget About Me) Simple Minds
White Horse Taylor Swift
Tell Me Why Taylor Swift
State of Grace Taylor Swift
All Too Well Taylor Swift
Red Taylor Swift
The Story of Us Taylor Swift
Cold As You Taylor Swift
A Perfectly Good Heart Taylor Swift
Pain Tiger Army
Rescue Me Tokio Hotel
Don’t Tell Me Avril Lavigne
Where Were You Brenton Wood
I Never Told You Colbie Caillat
Emotion Destiny’s Child
Special Garbage
Somebody That I Used to Know (feat. Kimbra) Gotye
The One That Got Away Katy Perry
You’re Not Sorry Taylor Swift
Haunted Taylor Swift
Teardrops On My Guitar Taylor Swift
Last Kiss Taylor Swift
I Hate Myself for Losing You Kelly Clarkson
No Debes Jugar Selena
Mentiras Selena

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List of Breakup Songs Part 2

If you’re happy about your breakup or you’re finally over it, here are some songs to check out!

Miss Independent Kelly Clarkson
Everything Back But You Avril Lavigne
Every Time You Lie Demi Lovato
Independent Women Part 1 Destiny’s Child
Survivor Destiny’s Child
Gotta Go My Own Way Gabriella & Troy
Cool Gwen Stefani
Take a Bow Rihanna
You Don’t Know What Love Is The White Stripes
I Found a Boy ADELE
I Can Do Better Avril Lavigne
Done With Like Brie Larson
Life After You Brie Larson
Stronger Britney Spears
Good in Goodbye Carrie Underwood
I Never Loved You Anyway The Corrs
Over You Daughtry
Everything You’re Not Demi Lovato
I Hate Love Garbage
So Yesterday Hilary Duff
Another Dumb Blonde Hoku
I Don’t Want You Anymore Jessica Lowndes
Leave (Get Out) Jojo
Never Again Kelly Clarkson
Stronger Kelly Clarkson
Since You’ve Been Gone Kelly Clarkson
So What Pink
Don’t Let Me Get Me Pink
Hate (I Really Don’t Like You) Plain White T’s
Cobarde Selena
Si Una Vez Selena
No Me Queda Más Selena
I Knew You Were Trouble. Taylor Swift
We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together Taylor Swift

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What I Would Like in 2013

What do I want in 2013? To be happy. Yes, this sounds lame, but after the last few months, that’s not too much to ask for right? Some other things I want- for my football clubs to do well 🙂 to finally transfer to a 4 year, go to Portland for the weekend, see the USMNT qualify for the 2014 World Cup, do all the things on my 2013 “Bucket List” lol

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Looking Back on 2012

Based on some of my posts from the last few months (specifically the ones from November and december), it might seem like 2012 was a horrible year for me, but that’s not true at all! Well, it ended horribly, but the first 9 months of 2012 were pretty good!

One great thing that happened to me was that after almost 4 years, I finally got my braces taken off! Well, it was more like 3 years and 10 months to be exact. I got my braces taken in January, a few weeks before my 21st birthday. I was so happy! It took me a while to get used to it.

Some other good things that happened- I finally graduated and got my AA. Not much, but I’m a step closer to get my bachelor’s degree 🙂 I also got my first job ever! I’m still there, surprisingly lol It’s been 5 months and I’ve met some pretty cool people, and one, well, person who wasn’t so nice. But I think I’ve written enough about that person tbh

I was a LA Galaxy STH and went to so many games. I also went to see USMNT in Arizona, as well as LA Galaxy in Portland. Real Madrid and Tottenham Spurs came to LA and played against LA Galaxy at HDC (Home Depot Center).

For the most part, 2012 was a good year for me. I think November and December were really bad months, because of that person and everything that happened, well more like half of November. But I’m not going to say that 2012 was awful just that one month and a half.

I’m hoping 2013 is much better!

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I Thought I Was Over You

When I started working there,
You were the first person who caught my eye

I don’t know what it was about you,
But the first time I saw you, I was like whoa

I remember thinking “Yes!
I have at least one cute coworker!”

I didn’t expect you to talk to me at all,
But for some reason, you did

The more we talked,
The bigger my crush on you got

Until…
Another coworker (my former “friend”)
Started telling me things about you,
He managed to convince me that liking you was a bad idea and that I should like him instead,
Which I did

Months later though,
Something happened.
I went a month without seeing you.
When I finally saw you again
It was like seeing you for the first time.

All those feelings came back
And it’s like I have a crush on you again

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